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Travel + Christmas Eve in Mexico

Hola from Mexico; we made it!

Travel to Chicago

Even though I had mostly already packed in advance, I was grateful to have most of the day Saturday to get ready to go. Not sure where so many loose ends always come from, but I seemed to stay busy with misc stuff.

We left home around 2:30 to drop Charlie off at my sister-in-law’s house. 😭😭 This was hard!! He seemed happy in the moment but obviously didn’t know we were LEAVING him there for 2 weeks….

After some snuggles and goodbyes, we hit the road to Chicago. We debated if we should just drive down to O’Hare Sunday morning (a 2 hour drive), but our flight was scheduled to depart at 7 a.m sharp. Meaning we’d have to leave home by… before 3 a.m., not even counting time to park the car etc.

We decided to get a hotel near the airport and planned to arrive fairly early by 5 pm or so to have a relaxed evening and get to bed early.

Hotel lobby, waiting for Ivan to park the car.

We left the car there too, so that made the morning easier. Just had to jump on the hotel shuttle.

The hotel had this cute little Christmas photo op room. 🙂

After checking in etc, we went out for dinner. There is a Dave and Buster’s literally on the corner in front of the hotel- a 3 minute walk. So we decided to just go there.

Family selfie in front of the big tree outside

Shockingly, the boys didn’t care to play the arcade games!! Which is fine, because they are $$$ there (you really have to buy a pass and stay a while to make it worth the cost), but it still surprised me. They were like, nah, that’s ok… let’s just eat.

Dinner was good and they had (loud) Christmas music playing. It was nice.

Back at the hotel, there was live music in the hotel lobby bar. A really quite good duo singing and keyboard/drums. Ivan and I decided to get a drink while the boys went back up to the room.

Sat on a couch and had a beer… and they also gave us free champagne! Which I only drank part of as nervous about a headache + early morning flight (#lightweight)

It wasn’t too busy in there at all- not sure if I thought airport hotel would be extra busy or extra not busy on night before Christmas Eve. Anyway, the music was good and we enjoyed this.

Before bed we got a notification that our flight was delayed by 35 minutes. When I woke up at 4 something o’clock, I had another notification that it was now delayed over an hour!

Oh well.. that actually was nice since we didn’t have to rush to the airport. Showered and packed up and we took the 6:00 shuttle to the international terminal.

Ready to go and very enthusiastic about me taking their picture at 6 am 😁

Airport

Got all checked in no problem- hardly any line at AeroMexico! (We had checked in online but still had to check just one bag.)

I was glad we were not flying Copa Airlines (Panama, I think) because the line was LONG and did not seem to be moving!!

Pretty decorations at O’Hare

Got a nice Christmas Eve breakfast 😉:

All smooth sailing minus the delayed flight. Fortunately, no real further delays, although in the end we did take off almost 2 hours after the planned time.

Let’s go! Always a good feeling when traveling when you’re on the other side of any prep, packing, airport logistics… time to sit back and enjoy.
My traveling teenagers 🙂

I watched all of White Christmas on my phone, napped, and ate a surprisingly delicious airplane hot ham and cheese sandwich. Kudos to AeroMexico for still providing a full, FREE, hot meal on an only ~4 hour flight.

Arrival to Mexico!

Descending into Mexico City

Oh, a funny story that had us all laughing: When we left Chicago, the flight crew was all Mexican. As we stood in line to board, the lady scanning the tickets was obviously greeting everyone. Probably 85% of the people on the plane appeared to be Hispanic, so she mostly spoke in Spanish.

When we got up there, Ivan went first. “Hola”, she said. Next, to Ethan: “Buenos días”. To Asher: “Bienvenido”. Then me… “Hi, good morning”.

😆 Hey! Do I not look Mexican??? 😅 (No, I don’t. lol.)

The boys got a good chuckle out of how they were presumed to be Mexican or Spanish speaking and I, the one who actually speaks fluent Spanish (unlike them who only kind of speak Spanish), got English. 😉

It happened again as we boarded the plane- the flight attendant did the same thing- and then yet again when we landed (a different flight attendant). Hahaha. They all got “gracias”, “gracias”, “gracias”, then “thank you” to me.

Ah, it’s ok. The truth is the boys do look way more Mexican than I do.

Off the plane on Mexican soil

The immigration line was the shortest we’ve ever seen and an absolute dream!! We had flashbacks to March when we stood in that same room at 5 am on our way to Costa Rica and stood in the longest immigration line of our lives.

It was all super quick and then we were out and Ivan’s parents were waiting for us!

My mother-in-law in her cute Christmas sweater 🙂

Outside it was a pretty warm almost 70 degrees and I texted this pic to my parents to let them know we had arrived, captioned “O Christmas Tree….”. Ha. Weird to see palm trees on Christmas for me.

Christmas Eve

We went straight to Ivan’s cousin’s house, right in Mexico City. Not too far of a drive from the airport. That’s where we would spend Christmas Eve.

His cousin had carnitas waiting for us that they had brought from Michoacán.

OMG. They were sooooo good. I was regretting eating that ham and cheese on the plane because I only had space for 2 tacos (plus I ate some extra meat + salsa + guac on the side).

The rest of the afternoon we just kind of hung out. The boys played around with their 13 year old cousin. We sat and talked while his cousin did some prep stuff for later. Ivan and his cousin’s husband went to run an errand, etc. I drank several cups of hot punch (like a cinnamon fruit cider) that they had on the stove.

At one point I went and lay down for a bit to rest my eyes since Ivan warned me the “evening” probably wouldn’t start until like 8 pm.

Eventually we all got cleaned up and changed clothes etc.

They had a piñata to smack up on their roof patio area.

There were lots of flashing Christmas lights all around Mexico City, but they don’t show up very well here.

Also, a LOT of barking dogs. Omg. So. Much. Barking. I think a lot of people just leave their dogs on their roof terraces here in the city while people are over or they are away with family, and the dogs just bark… and bark… and bark… at each other and/or the other noise from neighboring homes. The houses are all piled on top of each other, very close together.

I asked his cousin if people don’t complain about all the barking and she just waved her hand like, oh, no, that’s just normal. lol. (Pretty sure at home someone would call the police to complain….).

Back downstairs, we had Christmas dinner.

First a few family pics:

Dinner was smoked turkey, a spaghetti dish, and these shrimp cake things drenched in mole sauce that I had never heard of but were quite good. Also French bread and salsa of course.

Lingered over dinner and people drank tequila and/or beer and/or hot punch in my case.

There was no Christmas music 😦 but they played lots of good non-Christmas Mexican music. lol. (I personally would have played Christmas music, but I kept my mouth shut as this is not my Christmas to “lead”!)

At midnight there was a toast- I had some red wine. And everyone hugs each other. And then we did the “grapes tradition” where each person gets a cup with 12 grapes and you eat them one by one, making a wish for each month of the upcoming year.

I thought this was a New Years Eve tradition but apparently sometimes they do it on Christmas Eve too?

The kids played some dice type game until almost 1 when they finally headed up to bed. The rest of us made it until about 2 am before finally turning in! I was sleepy a little earlier but also kind of in that mode where I felt too lazy to go upstairs, put my pjs on, brush my teeth… so I just kept sitting there procrastinating, tired. Hahahah.

Now it’s Christmas Day and I’m just laying in bed writing this. Not entirely sure what the plans for today are. But that’s the beauty here… I, for once, am mostly just along for the ride. 🙂

Merry Christmas!! 🎄

11 thoughts on “Travel + Christmas Eve in Mexico”

  1. Merry Christmas! This was fun to read. I love how festive and Christmas-y everything was, even the hotel and your breakfast at the airport. And you watched White Christmas on the plane! So, I’m thinking the tradition in Mexico is to do most of the celebrating on Christmas Eve? I’ll be curious to see what you do on Christmas Day. Anyway- it sounds like a really fun trip so far. Enjoy!!!

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    1. I am not sure that this year really represents a “traditional” Christmas exactly in his family. It sounds like years ago things were very different, but now with such a big family, people have ended up spreading out, there are adult children and in-laws and, also, unfortunately, some certain family rifts that have shaken things up. Christmas Eve does seem to be the main celebration with Christmas Day more of just “continuing on” from the night before with leftovers and more socializing etc. We ended up doing some random things that did not feel particularly “Christmasy”- the boys even said “this just feels like a regular day we’d spend in Mexico- but oh well. Was still a nice day with lots of family time!

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  2. I’m American born Chinese and my husband is Caucasian. When we go to Asian restaurants, he always gets a fork slide onto the table and a glass of water without asking. The staff try and speak Mandarin with me, and I am not fluent at all. We get a chuckle from it. It is well intended. Merry Christmas and hope you have a fun trip!

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  3. Merry Christmas Kae!!! That was a great call to spend the night in CHI so that you didn’t have to get us in the middle of the night to drive to the plane. I used to dog sit so I can tell you that Charlie is having a blast while you’re away – yes he’ll be happy to see you when you get back but it’s vacation for him too;-) Our boys would be in heaven if we got them Dunkin Donuts for breakfast. Enjoy your time with your inlaws and keep posting pictures of all of the yummy food!

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    1. Thanks and Merry Christmas to you!

      The food is really sooooo good here. It’s hard to explain what the difference is but mmmm. It’s always just delicious! And we literally cannot get tortillas at home like the ones we get here, no matter how hard we try.

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  4. Feliz Navidad! Too funny about all the English greetings for you! Do the boys know enough Spanish to speak with their relatives? Or do their cousins speak English? I imagine their Spanish skills improve while they are there. Do you and Ivan speak Spanish to each other at home so you can keep up your skills? It feels like a use it or lose it skill. Phil was completely fluent and took classes in Spanish in Spain but he didn’t keep using it and now he has lost his fluency. He can understand everything but speaking is harder and he is very self conscious. So he would sometimes not want to speak to the Latina teachers at our old daycare for fear of making a mistake. Their English wasn’t strong so I told him surely they would prefer your broken Spanish! Anyways, it’s something I am curious about. Another friend studied abroad at the same time as Phil but she has a lot of opportunities to practice as she kept in touch with her host family and will use some Spanish in clinic (she’s a child psychologist).

    Anyways, I really went off on a tangent there!! Good for you for lasting so long especially after an early morning! The grape tradition is really cool. And those carnitas look AMAZING! Hooray for customs being a breeze. It was awful when we went to Cancun last winter! Worst customs experience I’ve had!

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    1. Haha, love the tangent! 🙂 The boys know enough Spanish to communicate, yes. It gets even better after a day or two here. No one speaks English in the family- I mean, the cousin technically learns it in school but he doesn’t seem to know much really.

      At home we speak both (between me and Ivan). In our first years together we spoke primarily Spanish as Ivan’s English wasn’t as good at first. Now we probably speak more English than Spanish, but still both and often go between the two languages even in a single conversation. I think since I spoke it so much early on I have a very solid base that can’t really be lost exactly at this point. However, I do sometimes have notions of feeling a little rusty in certain aspects, and there are still words that come up that I don’t know, even though I can speak very fluently! (I was telling someone about my mom’s fall and I knew how to say “dog gate”, “shoulder fracture”, “ER”, I could explain the whole situation and the fall, but I couldn’t think how to say “sling”! I know how to say “cast”, but sling… hmm. I probably learned it a long time ago in my medical Spanish class but I had to say I didn’t know the word and just described it.) But on the plus side, my Spanish is so strong there’s really nothing I can’t at least explain, even if I don’t know an exact word. But it annoys me when that happens because I always feel like I want to be 100%! Haha.

      I know what Phil means and I used to feel embarrassed speaking when I was newer to it too. In reality no one cares! But it can feel awkward. It’s easier (imo) when the other person doesn’t speak English, because then you can feel like, well, it’s this or nothing!

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  5. Dog culture stuff is weird! I have a friend who lives in Texas and there are dozens of stray dogs running around her neighborhood. (She tries to rescue them, but only has so much space in her house and she has pets of her own.) Meanwhile, if there’s a dog out in our town, the Facebook page goes crazy trying to figure out where it belongs. Crazy!

    I’m glad to hear the traveling part of things went well! Can’t wait to read more about it.

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  6. What a full day! I had to chuckle that you were addressed in English while your sons were addressed in Spanish. Is that some sort of “discrimination”?? LOL ( I guess it makes sense, but you COULD make a thing out of it if you wanted to… although the flight attendants must make a lot of assumptions like that all day long.)

    Sounds like a lovely – but different – Christmas Eve in Mexico. Can’t wait to read more.

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